Since 2006, Dr. Ethan Gregory has been providing advice via social media and advice column under the title The 911. With each piece of advice to people seeking answers to their dating and sex issues, Dr. G. advocates a perspective to life that includes empowerment while minimizing the harm done to others in the process. The Ethan Gregory Approach has helped people advocate for their needs with their partners, become more considerate of others feelings, and encouraged people to strive for their desires. For the first time, Dr. G has combed through the archives of his advice to others and has found the most practical, serious, and funny responses to readers. An important read for anyone looking to maximize his or her potential in life and love, The You Matter Most! series shows how Ethan Gregory treats his readers with respect while providing practical solutions to complex interpersonal problems. Season One focuses on the beginning steps to companionship, attraction, building intimacy, and sex. The ABC’s of relationships will enlighten and entertain readers as they build their knowledge base for upcoming challenges within future seasons of the You Matter Most! series. If you have seen his writing in articles and blogs spanning financial, romantic, health, and education advice; you are already aware that Dr. G has the experience and empathy to help anyone seeking answers in life. Readers of his first two books, choice based dating manuals, I’m Sorry, You are Not a Disney Princess & I’m Sorry, You are Not a Pick-Up Artist, love the way Dr. G. uses humor and tough love to guide readers. This book is raw, grown-folks advice that everyone can take into their relationships. If you like Dan Savage and Loveline, then you will love the EGA in the reader 911’s within the You Matter Most! series.
New release 1/15/2016
"My girlfriend has a close male friend that she hangs out with all the time. She tells me he is gay, but I can’t help but to get jealous sometimes, because she seems to be having a good time with him. As the boyfriend, I don’t want to come off as possessive or crazy, but I feel like I am being left out, and I am not sure that he really is gay. What can I do?" Your gut is telling you all you need to know about this situation. As “the boyfriend” you are entitled to meet the friends of your partner. Tell her you are setting up a dinner party for the upcoming weekend. Your girlfriend would most likely not hesitate to interject herself into a relationship you had with any woman, so why should you? The setup begins when you ask your girlfriend for this guy’s phone number. Tell her you want to invite him personally. If she hesitates, something might be up. Invite your gay friend for an extra gaydar (you know you have one). The trap is set. See where his attention goes. Talk with him about his coming out story, and some details of his last relationship. If the answers aren’t flowing off his tongue, or your girl is finishing his story for him, be suspicious. If this guy pays more attention to your girl then he does anything else, there might be a problem. If after that night your girl stops hanging out with him or you, you have your answer. I may be coming off as paranoid, but I have been on the other end of that exchange. Once I was staying at the Hard Rock in Chicago and met a girl at the bar. As we were going to bed, she asks me if I have ever hooked up with a dude. She tells me that she thinks I am gay, and it is ok because she will still hook up with me even though she is engaged. I didn’t do anything to change her mind. She made me out to be something so she could have less guilt about her naughty behavior. You might be her fiancé. Think about that. Best of luck, remember, you matter most!
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