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The book will cover the following and give you deeper insight about how you can develop a confident mindset.
The key to assessing your faults.
The importance of setting daily goals and sticking to them.
Why you should improve a little each day?
The need to see your own strengths.
The ideal way of measuring how much progress you have made.
Understanding the working of you own inner mind.
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Genre: SELF-HELP / AffirmationsChapter 1
Assess Faults Realistically
Those who lack self-confidence can probably compose a thorough list of their faults without giving the matter much thought. Such self-debasing thoughts might sound similar to some of the following:
“I’m fat.”/”I’m ugly.”
“I always lose jobs.”
“I never get asked out.”
“I’ve never been married.”
“I’ve never had kids.”
“I got passed over for another promotion.”
Of the preceding statements, guess how many are indicative that a person is meant for failure. In fact, take a wild guess at how many of the above statements indicate problems that are insurmountable in any way, shape or form.
If you guessed “none of them,” then you’re on the right track.
The above statements are not faults in one’s personality, nor are they omens that a person is not fit to achieve success. They are merely unhealthy ways of thinking that set a person up for failure again and again by constantly reinforcing the idea that they are not meant for anything else.
It may be surprising to hear this, but these sorts of self-loathing condemnations of one’s own character are actually something of a defense mechanism. Many people have trouble admitting that they are standing in their own way, and so they construct the notion that they are uniquely deficient as a means of avoiding the true problem at hand. A more realistic version of the above statements might read as follows:
“I eat more than I need to.”/”I undervalue my hygiene.”
“I underperform at work.”
“I wait for my love interests to come to me.”
“I do not stay in committed relationships.”
“I am afraid to raise a family.”
